Born in 29th August 1958 - i didnt know that he is a Leo, in a town called Gary,Indiana, gained his limelight and status as a star when he was only 6 years old,when other kids like him at that age would not even understand the meaning of becoming a 'star'.

His album Thriller features top legendary hits songs - even I am listening to it now while blogging, up till this very day like Billie Jean and Beat It. Another iconic song till today, a song often used for social movements is We Are The World after winning a White House award for his contribution to overcome the social problems of misusing drugs.

Another of his icon is of course, the famous Moonwalk, which every dancer till this day would have want and tried imitating it. As for awards, he has won tremendous number of awards of various kinds from Grammy to World Guiness Record - Music video Thriller, Best in History.

Despite all the above success stories, most 'stars' will definitely be exposed or framed to rumours/gossips or even their own actions that will lead and give them a negative image, which will then provide hot sizzling topics for magazine headlines, entertainment news and of course, word of mouth, to criticize and make fun of.

He underwent an extraordinary skin in particular face transformation with what many people said - an excessive use of plastic surgeries. Ever since, people started to mock,make fun of and even Eminem used him as part of his music video in Without Me.

It doesnt end there.

Despite his love for kids - now i wonder what will happen to his Neverland now that he's gone, this idol was sued for raping a teenage child in 1993. His last few years, he was hit by a financial crisis and another rape issue.

When u had fell hard to the ground, you will definitely want to make a comeback someday in London and there are even plans of making a world concert shows - the King is coming to get back his Throne. However this comeback has only become a dream instead after MJ's sudden death due to a heart attack.

The shocking news make the whole world shed to tears with celebrities, millions of his fans and even world leaders such as those from Venezuela, South Korea, France and German paid their tribute.

May MJ rest in peace and may God bless him. There will never be another MJ, never... and his songs will always stay alive.. Always...

I took the quiz "What kind of boy I should be with?" and that was the answer, bestfriend boy.

Nice.

Then I thought why not I use it to reflect on my own relationship and whatever thoughts that comes along the way in the hope it by writing something fun it could ease the anger in me and end today happily.

I used to have a lot of bestfriend boy before and I've dated most of them but oh well, things just didnt turn out they way I wanted it I guess or probably I just love them as a bestfriend.Period. As I began to grow up and meet more people, I then realised what kind of person I would be comfortable to be with. Before, most of the guys I dated likes to be "mushy gushy" and I have to say that 3 magic word phrase before putting down the phone. Thats one example. Of course, initially it gave you a nice feeling and it makes me smile but as time passes, it gets pretty mundane and boring for me.

I have nothing to look forward to once I can anticipate the things that's gonna happen. I dont need to be showered with gifts,hugs and kisses always. Easy. If he misses me, I am just a call away and vice versa. Calling signifies that we remember one another. We talk on the phone everyday. However, we seldom meet.(ps: i always get long dist bf,including the current) And thats a good thing. Frankly in my opinion,only a clingy partner would meet their lover every single day. Well, if u want to do so then i'd rather u work hard, quickly save some cash,get married and stay under one roof .By then,every singly morning u wake up,u will see each other.right?

Why be overly possesive. I believe that a r/s will only be strong and go far if both parties have MUTUAL trust and understanding. The dating/engaged season is still a time for you to have some fun and make your own decisions. So treasure that time while you still have it before much heavier responsibilies are being lifted on to your shoulders. Initially,yes I must admit that he was quite controlling but you must know when to "pull and let go the kite strings". Now, i can do what i want and so can he.

So tell me, what do you do each time u meet your partner? Do u look forward to it? If you say you simply just look into each other's eyes, that would not be for long. Or do you just go out somewhere to eat dinner, hangout, makeout then home?Seriously,you're just about to start the game. I look for fun and something exciting. Something new. I got a whole list of them but some things that we've done together were: karaoke,zoo trip, celebrated xmas at night safari, fishing,gardening with orchids, helping his artwork and riding on his bike anywhere till JB!haha.

I try to make it stay afresh always. Its not like u have a reset button to press.

Think i can keep on bragging on this and write a book someday. Interesting!

Night sweets! Stay fresh always!

still & always,since 10072006

There is little that others can do. Probably just give me some encouraging words(i need a lot of it!) or if they are kind enough, recommend to me some.

On the other hand, all I can do is just to stay at home and rot (hell no!). I just got to keep on trying and trying to find and apply as many as I can and wait of course for the outcome. I have a feeling my application has mount to more than 50 but Pathetically and sympathetically, I have only went for 1 frigging interview(which will take another 1 frigging month to process!) and 1 lame job test(and i didnt get shortlisted for the next round).

I just dont get it, out of so many only 2 responded! Is the economy really that bad and so many people are unemployed or is it just me that is not good?? wth. If only I have money I would just stick to schooling and further my studies but I just cant. It hard times now so i gotta work to help my family(ps:i am not a rich kid). Worse, my dad thinks that I am just lazying at home and not putting in efforts to search for jobs. Hello, then whats the many many application I send out for ehh??! Then he will start grumble and mumble(ngomel) to himself and thats so irritating!!

I looked up in the newspaper but very few is suitable for me so I just often go online. I wonder how long or how many will it take for me to finally nail a job man. Also, guess one thing for sure in times like this esp here in sg is that, "bangsa dia" will definitely be prioritized first. "Lau tak mkn kebulor!" Damnit!

And now, I am dreading to go search for jobs again(but i must!). God help me pls..pls plssssssss

What's life without your girlfriend(s)-gfs ?

Do you only rely on your bf as both a lover and a  'friend' or some even say 'best' friend? Well maybe you can but not for everything. Or for some others, a childhood guy friend even as your 'bestfriend'. A thin separation line between your partner and guy buddy is the level of affection you pour to them, but to those who are confused between a friend and a lover(some ppl are), then thats another different story all together. You just got to balance your time for both the lover and friends.

The distinct line here is about male and female,guy and girl - two different gender with totally 2 different way of thinking or perspectives especially when it comes to relationship matters. They are totally 2 conflicting and seperate creatures - take beauty and the beast for example.Haha.

I believe that almost every girl out there, regardless whether u have many or little friends, will definitely have a close gfs in their social circle. Even a tomboy has theirs. So if you are a miss normality then u definitely will too.

Wont you feel something is amiss if u only have guys and just guys to talk to? I strongly believes that even after marriage, you would still want the presence of your gfs once in while such as a night out together over dinner to chill out and catch things up. And girl, you better be fair to your partner if he still wants to spend time out with his guys for soccer or a night out to dinner too. Compromise and trust each other babey. It should be fine if u only do it once in a while unless both of u are irresistable and irritating control freaks of each other,and thats ugly.

Moreover, who says that you are done with r/s probs once you're married? Hell no, it might get worse even esp when u start to wrinkle and become less beautiful. Although that might not always be the reason, we girls got to always upkeep our appearance as part of the effort to keep the r/s afresh(in the hope your partner doesnt get bored looking at the same u every single day!). Problems will always pop out, it depends on how you deal with it but i guess singles doesnt really have to worry much about r/s probs uh.

We can never talk to a guy about r/s hiccups. Like I said earlier, we and the guys look into things differently. We say right,they say left or we say black they say white. Sometimes when u feel like having a short break from ur r/s, i am sure u will need a girl's companion. and esp when u are someone's wife, isnt it kinda weird to still have your guyfriend to go out with,just the 2 of you?? Your mum could be one of them unless there is a generation gap.

Even desperate housewives have their gang of ladies.

If you dont have at least one girlfriend yet, get off ur butt and start making friend with one! and to those who already have yours since childhood or managed to get hold of them again(which facebook does help a lot), always rmbr to keep in touch and treasure the friendship. Its just a call or a text msg away!

All the best ladies!

<3

Typical love stories could perhaps sounds like these...

They were childhood friends and both had fallen in love with each other since young, till one day when both are in their teenage years, either the guy or the girl changed into a different person than whom they used to know or had met and fell in love with another party which subsequently led to break ups or losing contacts of each other..

or the r/s could blossom into a typical happy ending love story where they get married, have kids and live happily ever after. (gosh i would love to a happy story too but life is not easy as we always think,right?)

or the couple had a long term r/s say 5-10 years before they broke up or get married.

Simply said, a relationship could either

start by planned-meetups through your social network, blind dates, friends or unexpected like those u see on tv eg. u accidently spill a coffee on a guy's shirt and he got attracted to u..yadayada..u know, love at first sight. duh!

u survived the obstacles or u didnt

have a happy or sad ending

Easy,3 generic stages from a bird's eye view.

However, some things could set your story different from the others and make ur love story into a Bizarre one. (i would like that!) It's the process of maintaining the r/s,  the obstacles that u had faced and u survived through it or the techniques that u use to keep the r/s stay alive and afresh or even your partner him/herself that is bizarre to u! Well, who knows that all this while there is a dark secret that lies beneath everything. hohoho.

Some of my girlfriends are going through this 'Bizarre' love story. It could be their partner themself, or things that their partner did to them.

A 'Bizarre' love story could also either be a happy or the other way round but when the latter happens, true friends would be supportive and be by their side to help mend things up.

Most importantly, one needs to have a positive and strong attitude to overcome all odds, clear the mess and get back on track.